Is it Wrong For a Woman To Propose To A Man?

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Is it Wrong For a Woman To Propose To A Man?

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Are men afraid to say yes to marriage proposals from women?

Looking at Nigeria where am from, It feels like Nigerian guys are not comfortable with a woman bending the knee to put a ring on their finger. 

Since the beginning of 2018, women have gone viral twice for proposing to boyfriends – and on both occasions have they failed – is there something scaring men away from saying yes?

The two proposals mentioned above did not fail because the men were freaked out – the first guy who was proposed to at ICM was said to have rejected the engagement because he already has a wife while the other rejection was just part of a grand scheme you actually need to watch here.

However, reactions of other men garnered off social media provides a sort of insight into the minds of the average Nigerian guy out there concerning women who propose to men.

It kinda feels like Nigerian guys are not comfortable with a woman bending the knee to put a ring on their finger in public. Or in private.

 Peep the following opinions shared concerning the proposals:

“No matter how ‘new school’ this trend of women proposing to men feels, I still find it awkward.

It doesn’t just feel alright. If a guy wants you in his life, he should ask you to marry him not the other way round ,” a tweep posts.

pl Another woman proposes to her boyfriend in an elaborate prank in Lagos. (Pulse)

Another one tweets about how this trend could cause a fundamental reversal in the traditional settings of marriage we’ve always known.

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“After she proposed to you and y'all get married, then someday she's gonna tell you remember I was the one that proposed, paid your groom's price and all.”

“So get in the kitchen and cook then do laundry later while she's watching Big brother”.lol 

Maybe Men are scarred to propose whether because of the misguided fear that their masculinity levels will nosedive, to keep their egos pumped up, or for some other spurious reason, it’s obvious that even if women somehow became a lot more confident and make this proposal thing a habit, a crazy number of men might have a problem with the whole idea..

So dear readers, whats your take on this/ Please tell us, in your country is it done/, is it acceptable for a woman to propose......PLEASE TELL US...

Cheers...

Ejiro