Wednesday, March 9, 2011

" How Will I Know When I am truly "In Love" WITH SOMEONE


Have you ever fallen "In Love" with someone before? Do you really think that the feelings you had were actually true test of being in love? people have different ways of identifying the feelings that show they are in love.

A person in love' is optimistic, humane and more importantly has the ability to love others. All through your life you may have many people. These people include parents, relatives,siblings, friends, e.t.c. However, being "in love" is different from loving all those around you.

However, love is not just a physical attraction, it is spiritual,emotional and physical as well.  When you are in love you will feel a strong bond between you and the other person. You will always be on the lookout for this person. You will be happy whenever the person you are in love with acknowledges you.


*When you are in love, you don't seem to notice the flaws of your partner, you automatically become blind to his or her shortcoming
* When you are in love you are willing to do just anything to  make that person happy, you will be very happy to go the extra mile if only that conveys your heart's message  that  you are indeed willing to do that......

Welcome back readers, you can agree with me that being  truly in L-O-V-E  is really not easy, it involves sacrifice, patience, endurance, pain, laughter,happiness. 

A lot of people differentiating love from lust. 

Lust is just that physical attraction or magnetism that exist between the opposite sexes.It is natural to have sexual desire for someone and confuse it with love, so merely having sexual urge for someone is not being in love.Real love is selfless and sacrificial, but lust is self seeking, only interested in taking away from and not giving out.


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