Love Chemistry!!!

Hi readers, have you ever wondered like me, what chemistry goes on in human heart, when we fall in love? if yes, this post is for you... Happy reading.... Cheers...

There a lot of  chemical racing around your brain and body when you are in love. Estrogen and Testosterone play a role in the sex drive area. Without them, we might never venture into the "real love" arena. That initial giddiness that comes when we are first falling in love includes a racing heart, flushed skin and sweaty palms.Researchers says this due to dopamine, nor epinephrine and phenylethymine we are releasing. Dopaming is thought to be the " Pleasure Chemical" producing a feeling of bliss. These two chemical produce elation, intense energy, sleeplessness, craving, loss of appetite and focused attention. It is said that the human body releases the cocktail of love rapture only when certain  conditions are met and men more readily produces it than women, because of their more visual nature.

Welcome back readers, I am sure the write up above has helped you to understand the chemistry that takes place when you fall in love.... Cheers....

"THE LOVE NEST EGG

  Hi readers,  I read this write up on net, I couldn't help posting. ... Humm very interesting....Ladies after reading this, you will know what to do, when next you ask your spouse or lover for a simple favour.   lol..

Enjoy:::

You love your guy, you really do, but boy, can he be a pain! You ask him to help with one simple thing, and it’s “No! Can’t you see I’m busy? Not now!” He’s ornery. Difficult. Stubborn. Irritating. You can feel yourself getting worked up as you stare at the man, wondering what you ever saw in him. Ever. Now you’re getting even more pissed and self-righteous.

I mean, all you asked was could he please watch the baby for a minute while you took a shower.

When you finally get to the shower, you’re even more incensed. How dare he! You do 90% of the housework, chores, taking-care-of-the-kids, plus go to work, and hardly ever ask him for anything! By the time you get out of the shower, you’re glowering. You yank the baby from him, lips tightly pursed, and announce “I’m going to my mother’s!”

He’s all “What did I do now?!” And you’re thinking “If he can’t figure it out, I’m not telling him!”

Crying on your mom’s shoulder might comfort you for a while, but it makes more sense to figure out how not to get all wrought up in the first place.

The love nest egg

You need a nest egg. Not the money kind (although that is a good idea) but the love kind. You know, something you can draw from when he’s being cranky or lazy or irritating, not fit-to-live-with, and you need it now.

A love nest egg is a list you compile of all the ways in which your sweetheart is wonderful. It’s a list you add on to whenever he’s being his sweet self, his considerate self, his dreamy I-love-him-so self. A love nest egg is something you keep carefully stashed in your underwear drawer and stare at to remind yourself of the 90% of the time (OK, 82%) that he’s a good guy, the one that makes you laugh and the one with whom you fell deeply in love. (Not to mention the one you so enjoyed making that baby with.)

SUh-huh. See? You’re smiling already
So take some time to build that love nest egg and refer to it when you’re going through tough times. A caring and understanding relationship will surely flourish because of your efforts.

Welcome  dear readers what are you waiting for???? start preparing your love nest egg.... I am almost done... lol....Cheers.

" How Will I Know When I am truly "In Love" WITH SOMEONE

Have you ever fallen "In Love" with someone before? Do you really think that the feelings you had were actually true test of being in love? people have different ways of identifying the feelings that show they are in love.

A person in love' is optimistic, humane and more importantly has the ability to love others. All through your life you may have many people. These people include parents, relatives,siblings, friends, e.t.c. However, being "in love" is different from loving all those around you.

However, love is not just a physical attraction, it is spiritual,emotional and physical as well.  When you are in love you will feel a strong bond between you and the other person. You will always be on the lookout for this person. You will be happy whenever the person you are in love with acknowledges you.

*When you are in love, you don't seem to notice the flaws of your partner, you automatically become blind to his or her shortcoming

* When you are in love you are willing to do just anything to  make that person happy, you will be very happy to go the extra mile if only that conveys your heart's message  that  you are indeed willing to do that......

Welcome back readers, you can agree with me that being  truly in L-O-V-E  is really not easy, it involves sacrifice, patience, endurance, pain, laughter,happiness. 

A lot of people differentiating love from lust. 

Lust is just that physical attraction or magnetism that exist between the opposite sexes.It is natural to have sexual desire for someone and confuse it with love, so merely having sexual urge for someone is not being in love.Real love is selfless and sacrificial, but lust is self seeking, only interested in taking away from and not giving out.